No Hetero

4 03 2017

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When straight men compliment each other, we will often appendage our compliment with the phrase “no homo,” as if we have to make it perfectly clear that our compliment has no romantic connotation.


When gay men compliment women, or when lesbian women compliment men, do they appendage their compliments with “no hetero?”




6 responses

5 03 2017
egregious philbin

i think they say “this may be getting a little hetero-erotic, but…”

5 03 2017
John Vawter

Short answer, no in both cases. Long answer, gay men compliment women in ways that could never be mistaken for straight-men compliments: “love your shoes, girlfriend!” said no straight man ever. Lipstick lesbians compliment men in typical straight-woman fashion, leaving things ambiguous for the purposes of manipulation. Bull dykes don’t compliment anyone.

5 03 2017

lol, Nailed It, boifriend :)

5 03 2017

I always say, “But not in a homo way”.

6 03 2017

I don’t know anyone who uses the “no homo”, we just lob the compliment out and leave it hanging…You know the guy is cool if he replies, “Thanks, faggot”.

11 03 2017

No homo, haven’t heard that one. I usually say “but not in a homo way” myself, depending on the audience.

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